
In an interview in the
New York Times Magazine,
Susan Faludi, author of
Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women,
explained her reticence as a public speaker: "For the author of what
was widely termed an 'angry' and 'forceful' book, I exhibit a timorous
verbal demeanor that belies my barracuda blurbs." Why is this so?
"[B]oth sexes fear public speaking... [but] women—particularly
women challenging the status quo—seem to be more afraid, and with
good reason. We
do have more at stake. Men risk a loss of face;
women a loss of femininity. Men are chagrined if they blunder at the
podium; women face humiliation either way. If we come across as
commanding, our womanhood is called into question. If we reveal
emotion, we are too hormonally driven to be taken seriously."
Despite these formidable obstacles, Faludi reported that she recently
gave a forceful speech at the
Smithsonian Institution
in Washington. "My voice got surer, my delivery rising. A charge
passed between me and the audience, uniting and igniting us both."
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